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Before you go on reading, this short article contains a common behavior that I have which is inbuilt with most men out there. Men are surely going to kill me for releasing this secret and to my wife, I am sorry for being a typical men. I love you very much! Let's get started.

A common statement by men, "It is not you, it is just me". Heard this before girls? A guy that tells you that you are absolutely wonderful, Superman action figure and everything but he has no choice but to set you free. The problem is him and not you. The true meaning behind his words is that you are donate a car real problem and he cannot handle it anymore but he just does not know how to say it to your face.

The famous saying, "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". This can actually be absolutely true! Apart from the visually obvious physical differences between men and women, men have totally different mindsets that make them to have absolutely different perspectives towards everything and anything. Hence, they tend to have different meaning towards the things they say.

One example, when a women says that she would like to stay home and relax, most likely she will stay at home with a little cleaning up of the house, updates her daily planner and even watch television. For men, when they say that he would like to stay home and relax, most likely he will be watching sports or world economic news on TV, drink beer or other beverages, surf the World-Wide-Web and order out. Can you see the difference between men and women? Men simply Donkey Kong not think the same way as women.

One thing that will push men further away is to nag at him and explaining everything to him in great details. It will never help things!

For women to save themselves from all the heartache and headache that men can give them with what they usually say. Here are just some tips to definitely break their language code.

[Tip #1] - When he says, "I am not ready for a serious 1949 Bowman baseball cards Is he kidding around? Everyone wants to have a great and beautiful relationship and men are no different. For men, what they want is to have a great relationship with women who they find attractive in both physical and emotional aspect. They want her to be funny, unpredictable or erratic, independent and level-headed or composed. To top that up, they like someone who does not need to be taught with these things.

[Tip #2] - When he says, "I just want my freedom". Men always use this lame tactic only to be out on a date with other women a few days later. Men always pre-planned their actions. These words that he said simply mean that he is looking for women with the qualities that maybe or most probably you do not have. Bakugan you are scratching your head on why he does not nag and talk to you about it, it is simple, it is because men just do not nag and as mentioned in [Tip #1], they would prefer that they do not have to tell you such things.

[Tip #3] - When he says, "I like women to be independent". They seriously do not mean a women that has her own house or car. They are simply referring to a women who does not get exaggeratedly upset by petty issues or things that crops up in the relationship. then again, they really do not want a passive women who keeps everything bottled up to herself to maintain the relationship from turning sour either. So, what do men want? They are the most fickle minded human being on earth when it comes to women.

These mentioned tips are just the tip of the iceberg in breaking their language codes. All men want their women to have all the good and amazing qualities that are in a men's list but most of the men out there, simply cannot write it down or say it out loud when asked for it. If you do not believe me, just ask your men this question when you have an argument with them, "What do you want from me?" Trust me, they will not say anything else except, "Nothing", followed by a common statement, "It is not you, it is just me".

With the little tips that I have mentioned above, women that are reading this can now arm themselves to understand what your men really mean and how to actually point your relationship towards the light for something happier, longer-term and hopefully blessed with a marriage. That is how my wife did it and got me speechless. Loving her, endlessly :)

Ash Ariffin - verbally-retarded.blogspot.comverbally-retarded.blogspot.com

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